As a redhead and a Leo, sometimes my red hot temperament results in a red hot bottom.
It is not that I am a brat or that I am attention-seeking, it is just the natural result of my impulsive feminine nature. There are times I take action before I think of the consequences of my actions and when that happens I am fortunate to have a HOH (Head of Household) who cares enough about the outcome of my behavior that he will take me in hand and give me an old fashioned over the knee spanking. His temper is not as quick as mine so he gives me plenty of warnings with "the look" and with verbal reprimands in order to allow me to change my ways, and still there are times I don't heed the warning signs and it takes a firm hand to deliver the message during a sound spanking. When his hard hand lands on my bare bottom, it can really hurt and sometimes the soreness lasts for a few days, but the lesson learned has a far longer lasting effect.
I need his authority to guide me in a disciplinary way because, in all honesty, I lack the self-discipline I need to achieve the same results I do when I am motivated by consequences imposed by a loving dominant man. I don't crave the punishment but I do desire the outcome when I am punished. When I have done something wrong that I know will disappoint him because I am disappointed in myself, the emotional pain is overwhelming. Being spanked releases that emotional pain and allows me to reach a state of mind where I can express my repentance and be forgiven. Sometimes I cry tears of remorse but it is not the pain of the spanking alone that brings tears to my eyes, it is the relief that I have paid for my mistake and can learn from it to do better in the future. This helps me become the kind of person I can be proud of so he can take pride in being my life partner. He wants to protect me from the world but sometimes I can be my own worst enemy and it is good to be protected from my own misbehavior.
It is good to know that I am loved so much because the erotic love we feel towards each other builds when there is harmony in our relationship and in our lives. When some men get upset they withdraw into solitude but I don't have to wonder what I did wrong or how he feels about it because he spanks me instead of giving me his silent disapproval. In a DD (Domestic Discipline) relationship there are no grudges because anything that has the potential to come between us instead brings us closer together during a spanking.
It is not that I am a brat or that I am attention-seeking, it is just the natural result of my impulsive feminine nature. There are times I take action before I think of the consequences of my actions and when that happens I am fortunate to have a HOH (Head of Household) who cares enough about the outcome of my behavior that he will take me in hand and give me an old fashioned over the knee spanking. His temper is not as quick as mine so he gives me plenty of warnings with "the look" and with verbal reprimands in order to allow me to change my ways, and still there are times I don't heed the warning signs and it takes a firm hand to deliver the message during a sound spanking. When his hard hand lands on my bare bottom, it can really hurt and sometimes the soreness lasts for a few days, but the lesson learned has a far longer lasting effect.
I need his authority to guide me in a disciplinary way because, in all honesty, I lack the self-discipline I need to achieve the same results I do when I am motivated by consequences imposed by a loving dominant man. I don't crave the punishment but I do desire the outcome when I am punished. When I have done something wrong that I know will disappoint him because I am disappointed in myself, the emotional pain is overwhelming. Being spanked releases that emotional pain and allows me to reach a state of mind where I can express my repentance and be forgiven. Sometimes I cry tears of remorse but it is not the pain of the spanking alone that brings tears to my eyes, it is the relief that I have paid for my mistake and can learn from it to do better in the future. This helps me become the kind of person I can be proud of so he can take pride in being my life partner. He wants to protect me from the world but sometimes I can be my own worst enemy and it is good to be protected from my own misbehavior.
It is good to know that I am loved so much because the erotic love we feel towards each other builds when there is harmony in our relationship and in our lives. When some men get upset they withdraw into solitude but I don't have to wonder what I did wrong or how he feels about it because he spanks me instead of giving me his silent disapproval. In a DD (Domestic Discipline) relationship there are no grudges because anything that has the potential to come between us instead brings us closer together during a spanking.
